Psychic Energy Vampires
I have ceaselessly used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe an individual who extracts energy from others so as to survive of their world. We have now all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. However it shouldn't be usually a acutely aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator is just not usually aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator often feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic persons are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It's really quite simple. Just be aware of how you are feeling round completely different people. Start making mental notes. Some individuals will go away you feeling completely satisfied, energized, or nurtured. Others will depart you feeling drained, tired, depressed, indignant or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this have an effect on on you more often than not than they're likely an energy vampire. Chances are you'll enter the interaction or dialog feeling good about something and throughout the course of the dialog you are remodeled into feeling bad. For example: Say you just acquired a big promotion at work and you are really excited. You go home from work and you might be high with excitement and share the great news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't obviously cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" However someway you are feeling that you haven't been heard and that he would not really share in your excitement. Actually it appears more that he may care less. You feel a plummet in your energy and suddenly you aren't feeling very excited anymore. It's possible you'll respond by saying "No I have not seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to give attention to the bottle asking you if you are positive you did not take it because you may have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was lower very short. In fact if you want to celebrate at all you have to to call a good friend who truly cares about you and your good news. However by now chances are you'll not feel a lot like celebrating. You might feel that your promotion really is not that big of a deal after all. Particularly because the individual closest to you doesn't appear to think it is.
Whenever you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether from a buddy, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a partner or partner, you may be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire will not be necessarily a psychic individual but relatively somebody who preys on the psychic energy subject around a person.
I am very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. But in the past, I did not know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was occurring with me and why I typically felt drained when around lots of people, or sure individuals especially. Now I'm pretty aware of what is going on around me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet plenty of psychic vampires who appear to be just normal folks going about their business. However here's what I notice. These type of people seem to want something from me. I notice the conversations tend to be one sided where they are doing all of the talking and I'm doing all the listening. There isn't a true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the dialog, I really feel as if I'm not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they proceed their dialog as if I have not said a word.
When I ask myself what the intention of those folks could be I see they are looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, try to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I start to feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and go away the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed every other. We share energy. Certainly one of us might be feeling down and the other can encourage us and say things to support us which can convey us up. Other times we're the ones serving to and encouraging the other. It's a give and take energy exchange that is mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there isn't any give and take, only take. They don't have any energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He would not have an inner life and isn't spiritually related to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning find out how to go within and cultivate his own inner garden.
Think of the human body and its want for vitamins and minerals. Our our bodies have the ability to manufacture most of what we need from within if given the correct nutrients and building blocks. But as an instance a person eats nothing however junk meals and then takes numerous vitamins. He's relying on this external substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a mobile level. If he actually wanted to be healthy he would be taught that he needed to cleanse out all the toxins that have been accumulating from years of bad eating and then start taking in high nutrient dense meals to rebuild his body.